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Your Relationship To You

  • Rose Widener
  • Jan 18, 2020
  • 4 min read

Updated: Feb 29, 2020




Today’s inspired writing came from a Facebook post. Someone wrote this : “I can feel my arteries clogging up as I type!” She is enjoying her vacation and sharing all the wonderful food she is eating. I love her sarcasm as much as I love my own.

The person who wrote this inspired me to share a key that has served my journey well. This can be applied to all things not just this example. ‘It is never about what you do, as much as your relationship to, what you do.’ I personally have grown in profound ways through this knowing.

Words cast spells. The word itself tells you this, Spelling > Spell-ing > Spell Casting. Add to this, you are powerful beyond measure and you have free will to express your creative power.

When you choose to do something from a vibrational frequency of limitation or lack then that continues to be your experience. The food will not cause you to have clogged arteries. What you are in a given moment creates an experience of it. What you are emitting as you is determined by vibrational frequencies that you are consciously or unconsciously expressing into no-thing-ness. It is you every time painting on a blank canvas.

To already think it will and do it anyway, one cannot be surprised by their creation. You just reaffirm it as true to the unconscious self who continues to emit the same vibration again and again. Ever realize your doing something repeatedly, just in different circumstances? Then you wonder why you are getting the same results?

The unconscious self does not know better. “Father forgive them, for they do not know,” sound familiar? Let go of what you have been taught and open your mind to a world where limitation does not exist. Each world merely exists in your mind.

Limitation is an illusion only real to parts of the unconscious self. It serves as a vibrational invitation to co-create experience that no longer serves. All energies that match this vibration can play with you. This symbiotic relationship with other energies create your holographic observations. You call it real or real-ity.

Two people can make the same choice in life and get two different experiences. It comes down to their individual relationships to the experience, a product of vibrational invitations held. With every choice, choice has already been made. You may want to read that again. Do not fret if you do not understand it. Know that I just planted a seed. My very expression in ‘no time’ will fertilize it until it blooms into your conscious awareness. Multi-dimensional concepts make no-sense to linear experience. If you can feel a curiosity about it and know that there is more, then you will know in the perfect moment. Hell, I just cracked myself up to express it.

Here is a personal example of, ‘It is never about what you do, as much as your relationship to, what you do.’ I decided to leave and sell my business where I made a six figure income. I knew that if my relationship to sell was about money at the expense of others it would not fair well and I could lose not only the business but walk away with zero compensation. My relationship to sell was an act of love for myself and my greatest desire was that my clients and staff be taken care of once I stepped down. Even if that meant I walked away with no-thing.

Honestly, I did not realize the power behind it at the time, as I deeply know it now. The result was not only a sale but to a provider who was the best fit. Though not everyone saw that it was a good fit, I had to let go of responsibility for them. It turned out I received more compensation than I imagined was possible. After the sale, my accountant shared some details about the company books. I did not realize how much capital I had in the business. This determined how much of the sale came to me. I was speechless, literally. It was not a ton of money, but more than I expected and enough to assist my transition with more ease and grace. I know without a shadow of a doubt that my relationship to my action was the key. It was my desire to love myself more that created my experience. When you love yourself it benefits and serves the whole of creation.

No-thing is ever what you think it is. There is no cause and effect. It is always and will always be about you and your relationship to you. Love experiencing itself.


Note to readers: Share your authentic self with me. The authentic self is your transparent expression. I welcome all responses and questions, unconditionally. If you wish to contact me you can use the contact section of this site.




 
 
 

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